No Strings Attached?

Okay, So somethings been brought to my attention about Gay men and No Strings Attached. Being a gay man and living in such a world where still its very sketchy just to be who you are let alone love who you want. A friend of mine went out tonight and had company over and he felt as though he was a whore.. I mean aren't we all human.. Don't we all get a free pass in life to do something crazy every once in awhile?? Please, explain to me when the moment when it wan't okay to do something spontaneous! Then again these actions are looked down on any one who does it but the fact that most people look at those actions and aren't surprised to hear that it was done by a gay guy. I mean hell maybe people should think its more known nowadays since Homo Phobic people didn't give us normalcy for so long we can't get past that first excitement stage! Let me know your opinions!